Timbaland in Trouble?
Click the link below to listen:
http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhgX9r8p5dLQGS4J2n
Man! I sure hope Timbo is okay. The super producer's mother-in-law called 911 to alert them that he was on a cliff in a blue SUV with dark tented windows. She said he sent a text message saying that he was just tired and stressed out. There were also reports that Timbo was robbed of a $2 million watch. Hmmmmmm? I'm guessing there could be more to this than what was said over the phone. And isn't it a coincidence that today is the anniversary of the passing of Aaliyah. Those two worked very close together so, I'm guessing that might have had an affect on him today as well.....on top of getting robbed! However, Timbo called into Ryan Seacrest's KIIS-FM radio station to firmly deny the rumors of him attempting suicide. "Why would I want to commit suicide," he told Seacrest. His family found him later on and brought him back home unharmed. "The only thing I did was take a drive to figure out how I'm going to handle this (robbery)," Timbaland said. He added that he did get robbed, but it was not a watch. I guess the only thing I'm questioning is what did he get robbed of? And aside from however much it's worth (whatever he got robbed of), it must have meant a lot to him. Once again, the media got hold of the 911 call and ran with suspicion....but that's what we do at times. After returning home safely, Tim plans to go back to the studio and work with Keri Hilson on her next album. Good luck Timbo!
Mr. Elvis Freshley
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Soulja Boy Caught with cocaine and Kat Stacks.........RED HANDED!
Damn DeAndre Damn!!!
Click on the link below to see how Kat Stacks puts Soulja Boy on Blasts!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dreYoGt9spY
Well this one threw me for a loop when I first heard about it...but then again...I wasn't surprised. And believe me, I've never believed anything this chick has said or came out with. HOWEVER, Kat Stacks almost has too much proof of evidence on Soulja. I also think she might have landed her a major book deal and reality show with this one. She truly has a testimony of going from a hoe to a pro. Kat Stacks videotaped herself at a hotel in Atlanta (Buckhead area) with Soulja in the background. From the looks of the video, it looks like he didn't know that she was recording him (but how stupid can you be when you know practically everybody has a video recorder on their phone). She then shows the lines of coke on the dresser on calls him a "f**kin cokehead. Oh yeah, then she records a phone conversation between the two and puts that on blast as well. A lot of people would say, "I don't understand these rappers!" But it's all part of the game. Name me one rapper who hasn't cheated on their wife......you and I both can't do that because we don't have any proof....but I guarantee it happens. Not to say that there aren't any faithful ones out there. Anyway, I think what we have to understand is that Soulja Boy is still at a very young age and doesn't have the proper guidance around him to steer him in the right direction. We also have to understand that he went from "Superman" to "Pretty Boy Swagg." Basically, the older he got, he morphed into a completely different person. To understand this better, let me to take you through his phases.
PHASE 1 (Crank Dat)
PHASE 2 (Watch Me Birdwalk)
PHASE 3 (Pretty Boy Swagg)
Regardless on whether you like his music or not, I do believe he is a natural talent and an internet sensation that paved the way for other teenagers, adults, to be discovered online. My only question is: When you're a teenager and you blow up the way he did (music, clothing line, acting, shoes, company, etc.), after you all the money, cars and houses, where is the guidance. Where is Soulja Boy's mother, father, aunt, uncle, anybody? Who are his advisers? I'm not saying that as a parent, you should keep an eye on your child 24/7 because that's not possible. But if anything, with this recent incident, this would be a good time for a true and down-to-earth family member to intervene. But maybe the mother and other family members are also soaking up all the riches and enjoying it right with him. I don't know Soulja Boy's family situation, with all due respect, but there has to be a line drawn somewhere. I was looking at Lil' Wayne's "Behind the Music" on VH1 last night and I realized that he had guidance with his mother and father in the household, but I questioned if it was the proper guidance. In my opinion, aside from any struggle or situation a person is in, a father doesn't stand on the corner with his son and deal drugs while he cuts school. A mother isn't supposed to be proud of her son when he tells her he's going to be a father at 16. But regardless of his faults, mistakes, you can't take anything away from his talent or success.
The Moral of the Story is:
When a person's dream becomes reality, like Soulja Boy, we have to be careful not to stay in the dream, we can live it, but we all must wake up at some point in time before it's too late. We all go through changes and phases, but we have to question ourselves, "Is this change for the good? And will hit benefit me in the long run?"
Click on the link below to see how Kat Stacks puts Soulja Boy on Blasts!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dreYoGt9spY
Well this one threw me for a loop when I first heard about it...but then again...I wasn't surprised. And believe me, I've never believed anything this chick has said or came out with. HOWEVER, Kat Stacks almost has too much proof of evidence on Soulja. I also think she might have landed her a major book deal and reality show with this one. She truly has a testimony of going from a hoe to a pro. Kat Stacks videotaped herself at a hotel in Atlanta (Buckhead area) with Soulja in the background. From the looks of the video, it looks like he didn't know that she was recording him (but how stupid can you be when you know practically everybody has a video recorder on their phone). She then shows the lines of coke on the dresser on calls him a "f**kin cokehead. Oh yeah, then she records a phone conversation between the two and puts that on blast as well. A lot of people would say, "I don't understand these rappers!" But it's all part of the game. Name me one rapper who hasn't cheated on their wife......you and I both can't do that because we don't have any proof....but I guarantee it happens. Not to say that there aren't any faithful ones out there. Anyway, I think what we have to understand is that Soulja Boy is still at a very young age and doesn't have the proper guidance around him to steer him in the right direction. We also have to understand that he went from "Superman" to "Pretty Boy Swagg." Basically, the older he got, he morphed into a completely different person. To understand this better, let me to take you through his phases.
PHASE 1 (Crank Dat)
PHASE 2 (Watch Me Birdwalk)
PHASE 3 (Pretty Boy Swagg)
Regardless on whether you like his music or not, I do believe he is a natural talent and an internet sensation that paved the way for other teenagers, adults, to be discovered online. My only question is: When you're a teenager and you blow up the way he did (music, clothing line, acting, shoes, company, etc.), after you all the money, cars and houses, where is the guidance. Where is Soulja Boy's mother, father, aunt, uncle, anybody? Who are his advisers? I'm not saying that as a parent, you should keep an eye on your child 24/7 because that's not possible. But if anything, with this recent incident, this would be a good time for a true and down-to-earth family member to intervene. But maybe the mother and other family members are also soaking up all the riches and enjoying it right with him. I don't know Soulja Boy's family situation, with all due respect, but there has to be a line drawn somewhere. I was looking at Lil' Wayne's "Behind the Music" on VH1 last night and I realized that he had guidance with his mother and father in the household, but I questioned if it was the proper guidance. In my opinion, aside from any struggle or situation a person is in, a father doesn't stand on the corner with his son and deal drugs while he cuts school. A mother isn't supposed to be proud of her son when he tells her he's going to be a father at 16. But regardless of his faults, mistakes, you can't take anything away from his talent or success.
The Moral of the Story is:
When a person's dream becomes reality, like Soulja Boy, we have to be careful not to stay in the dream, we can live it, but we all must wake up at some point in time before it's too late. We all go through changes and phases, but we have to question ourselves, "Is this change for the good? And will hit benefit me in the long run?"
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Lil Boosie releasing albums from Jail, Beyonce stealing clothing Ideas, Monica's in love...again!
Thank Goodness for pen and paper in Jail
Aside from all the murder charges that Louisiana rapper Lil Boosie faces now, he is still managing to put out an album on Asylum Records titled, "Incarcerated." It's scheduled to drop Sept. 28. Now normally, we've seen this kind of stuff happen on a normal basis with incarcerated rappers until their release date. However, we're not sure if Boosie will ever get out right now until the trial. Boosie has talent, but you can only go so far with it in jail, just ask C-Murder. Because of his bad blood with Trill Ent. and his 7 or 8 kids, I think Boosie is doing this to keep his mind sane and to feed his family. Is it me, or is this trial not looking so good for Boosie?!? Anyway, here is the track listing below. Good luck Boosie!
1. “Devils” (produced by Savage)
2. “You Don’t Know” (produced by B.J.)
3. “Betrayed” (featuring Webbie; produced by B.J.)
4. “Chill Out” (produced by B.J.)
5. “Bank Roll (Part 2)” (featuring Webbie and Big Head; produced by B.J.)
6. “How We Do It” (Featuring Webbie and Lil Trill; produced by B.J.)
7. “Cartoon” (featuring Shell and Mouse on Tha Track; produced by Mouse on Tha Track)
8. “Thugged Out” (featuring Foxx; produced by B.J.)
9. “Better Not Fight” (featuring Foxx, Webbie and Lil Trill; produced by David West)
10. “What I Learned From the Streets” (featuring Shell; produced by B.J.)
11. “Calling Me” (produced by B.J.)
12. “Do It Again” (featuring Lil’ Phat and K.T.; produced by B.J.)
13. “Long Journey” (featuring Webbie; produced by B.J.)
14. “The Rain” (featuring Lil Trill; produced by B.J.)
Monica has love all over her!......Again?!?!?
Rumor has it that r&b sensation Monica is seeing Los Angeles Lakers guard Shannon Brown. Now we all know he was in the video, but before this Monica thing, Shannon allegedly had a girlfriend/fiance who is none other than the "baby mama." Of course Shannon is denying this. But I don't think we will get closer to the truth unless "Baby Mama" speaks out. Did Monica pull a Fantasia? And remember when Keisha Cole had her baby daddy in her video sporting his basketball jersey (we still didn't know who the f*ck he was, lol)...sooner or later, it all came out that she and Boobie were together. If this is true, the female r&b singers are truly living their life like their music.
Beyonce Stealing ideas?
As creative as her and her husband are, I doubt that this is true. But Miss "uh-oh" has been accused of copying clothing designs for her Dereon 2010 collection. Some company called "E-Label" has laid down these allegations on the pop star. Supposedly, Beyonce stole some legging designs she bought in London earlier this year. The co-owner of E-Label's name is Helba Hallgrimsdottir.
Here are the allegedly stolen leggings:
Aside from all the murder charges that Louisiana rapper Lil Boosie faces now, he is still managing to put out an album on Asylum Records titled, "Incarcerated." It's scheduled to drop Sept. 28. Now normally, we've seen this kind of stuff happen on a normal basis with incarcerated rappers until their release date. However, we're not sure if Boosie will ever get out right now until the trial. Boosie has talent, but you can only go so far with it in jail, just ask C-Murder. Because of his bad blood with Trill Ent. and his 7 or 8 kids, I think Boosie is doing this to keep his mind sane and to feed his family. Is it me, or is this trial not looking so good for Boosie?!? Anyway, here is the track listing below. Good luck Boosie!
1. “Devils” (produced by Savage)
2. “You Don’t Know” (produced by B.J.)
3. “Betrayed” (featuring Webbie; produced by B.J.)
4. “Chill Out” (produced by B.J.)
5. “Bank Roll (Part 2)” (featuring Webbie and Big Head; produced by B.J.)
6. “How We Do It” (Featuring Webbie and Lil Trill; produced by B.J.)
7. “Cartoon” (featuring Shell and Mouse on Tha Track; produced by Mouse on Tha Track)
8. “Thugged Out” (featuring Foxx; produced by B.J.)
9. “Better Not Fight” (featuring Foxx, Webbie and Lil Trill; produced by David West)
10. “What I Learned From the Streets” (featuring Shell; produced by B.J.)
11. “Calling Me” (produced by B.J.)
12. “Do It Again” (featuring Lil’ Phat and K.T.; produced by B.J.)
13. “Long Journey” (featuring Webbie; produced by B.J.)
14. “The Rain” (featuring Lil Trill; produced by B.J.)
Monica has love all over her!......Again?!?!?
Rumor has it that r&b sensation Monica is seeing Los Angeles Lakers guard Shannon Brown. Now we all know he was in the video, but before this Monica thing, Shannon allegedly had a girlfriend/fiance who is none other than the "baby mama." Of course Shannon is denying this. But I don't think we will get closer to the truth unless "Baby Mama" speaks out. Did Monica pull a Fantasia? And remember when Keisha Cole had her baby daddy in her video sporting his basketball jersey (we still didn't know who the f*ck he was, lol)...sooner or later, it all came out that she and Boobie were together. If this is true, the female r&b singers are truly living their life like their music.
Beyonce Stealing ideas?
As creative as her and her husband are, I doubt that this is true. But Miss "uh-oh" has been accused of copying clothing designs for her Dereon 2010 collection. Some company called "E-Label" has laid down these allegations on the pop star. Supposedly, Beyonce stole some legging designs she bought in London earlier this year. The co-owner of E-Label's name is Helba Hallgrimsdottir.
Here are the allegedly stolen leggings:
jkj
Chris Brown will not tour with Usher!
Although this would have been a nice one for the ladies...I'm getting word that the Usher and Chris Brown tour has been canceled, according to a Chris Brown fan page. In my opinion, these two didn't always get along. I think Usher got kinda jealous when CB first came into the game and stole some of that spotlight. Oh well, one room isn't big enough for two people sometimes.
Monday, August 23, 2010
Kimora Lee Simmons leaves Baby Phat, Fantasia's Publicity Stunt, Another Damn Madea Movie!
No More Baby Phat?!?
Even through the divorce, Kimora and Russell still have a good relationship and have remained business partners throughout the years. But maybe it's time to move on, I guess. Rumor has it that the big corporate heads may have made her step out of the office. Now keep in mind that Kimora and Russell sold the company years back for a cool $100 Million several years ago. But without Kimora in office, I think Baby Phat's sales will go dramatically down and end up like FUBU! Good luck Baby Phat!
The Life and Times of Fantasia: Part 31
Okay...as soon as she gets out of the hospital and off of those pills, she sangs "Happy B-Day" at an NBA players party, does another comeback performance somewhere else, and is already doing a special on VH1's "Behind the Music"?!?! Are you serious? Fantasia has been trying to get back in that spotlight for about three years, but this is not the way to do it. I mean, I think she is very talented. But she just needs to sit down right now. Sheesh!
Michel'le Making a Comeback
Jennifer Freeman pulls a Mike Tyson on NBA hubby Earl Watson
Man! Didn't these two just get married recently. Anyway, if you don't know Jennifer Freeman, she played Damon Wayans' daughter on the show, "My Wife and Kids." Her husband plays for the Indiana Pacers in the NBA. Well..........one night while sleeping, Jennifer's phone rings around 11 p.m. Earl proceeds to pick up her phone to see who it is.....then she bites him! Are we hiding something Jennifer? Earl filed a police report and divorce, but they say the two are working it out. Sorry but, if you bite me through my skin, we have problems! Good luck Earl!
Kanye announces G.O.O.D. Fridays!
Yeezy said he will be releasing new material every Friday through Christmas! I likes!
Another Damn Madea Movie!
For those who care, Bow Wow has landed a role in Tyler Perry's upcoming film, "Madea's Big Happy Family." I swear this guy is like Beyonce, can't take a break!
Can't Get Right Faith!
I believe she has an album coming out as well....and now she gets arrested on DUI charges?! Epic FAIL!
It's Official! Wyclef Ruled Ineligible for Presidency!
I saw this one coming from a mile away! And just like I said, it was too much hype. The people of Haiti decided that he was not eligible. BUT...Clef still thinks he can help Haiti....Just do what you were doing before Clef....now you can come out of hiding!
Even through the divorce, Kimora and Russell still have a good relationship and have remained business partners throughout the years. But maybe it's time to move on, I guess. Rumor has it that the big corporate heads may have made her step out of the office. Now keep in mind that Kimora and Russell sold the company years back for a cool $100 Million several years ago. But without Kimora in office, I think Baby Phat's sales will go dramatically down and end up like FUBU! Good luck Baby Phat!
The Life and Times of Fantasia: Part 31
Michel'le Making a Comeback
This might be interesting. Word is....Michel'le is scheduled to drop a new album next year. Her voice was amazing back in the day, and I'm interested to know how it sounds now. She had classics produced by Dr. Dre while at Eazy E's Ruthless Records and Death Row such as "Nicety" "Something in my Heart" and "No More Lies"......and dig this.....this chick has a son by Dr. Dre and a daughter by Suge Knight. Can you imagine that brother and sister arguing?
Jennifer Freeman pulls a Mike Tyson on NBA hubby Earl Watson
Man! Didn't these two just get married recently. Anyway, if you don't know Jennifer Freeman, she played Damon Wayans' daughter on the show, "My Wife and Kids." Her husband plays for the Indiana Pacers in the NBA. Well..........one night while sleeping, Jennifer's phone rings around 11 p.m. Earl proceeds to pick up her phone to see who it is.....then she bites him! Are we hiding something Jennifer? Earl filed a police report and divorce, but they say the two are working it out. Sorry but, if you bite me through my skin, we have problems! Good luck Earl!
Kanye announces G.O.O.D. Fridays!
Yeezy said he will be releasing new material every Friday through Christmas! I likes!
Another Damn Madea Movie!
Can't Get Right Faith!
I believe she has an album coming out as well....and now she gets arrested on DUI charges?! Epic FAIL!
It's Official! Wyclef Ruled Ineligible for Presidency!
I saw this one coming from a mile away! And just like I said, it was too much hype. The people of Haiti decided that he was not eligible. BUT...Clef still thinks he can help Haiti....Just do what you were doing before Clef....now you can come out of hiding!
Understanding the Half-Breed (half-racist, half-not)
I was listening to an audio of a person by the name of Dr. Laura Schlessinger, who has recently made headlines all over for using the N-word, while attempting to give a black woman advice on how she should handle her white husbands friends when they make racist remarks around her. Before you read any further, you might want to check this link out below for yourself to hear it: Oh, and by the way, I used a picture of her and a black man on purpose.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YgWbjdBjTb0
Honestly, after listening to this, I wasn't so much angry by her using the term "nigger," because it is carelessly tossed around anyways. What I was more angry with was her being rude and disrespectful to her caller (the black woman) on the phone. This so-called doctor told the woman, "Don't NAACP me!".....and she continued to cut her off when she was trying to make a point. Before Schlessinger's race rant, the woman originally called in for advice on how to handle certain comments that were offensive when her husbands friends are over. However, instead of giving her "appropriate" and "professional" advice, Schlessinger decided to make her own point by saying that some people are too sensitive when it comes to racist remarks, or the use of the "N" word. After hearing this, my guess is that most black people would call Schlessinger a racist, but I don't think she is. She's a half-breed.
What is a half-breed?
A half-breed (my own word and definition) is a person who is half-racist, and chooses to be in denial because of the way they are perceived by the public. On the outside, the public looks at their profession, their friendship, etc. These half-breeds understand what racism is and have been raised by their families not to be a racist. However, they feel that certain words and remarks are okay to use because they have been used by the other race in a way. For instance, Danny Glover and all black people's best friend, Mel Gibson. At my high school, especially in college, and even after college, I can't even begin to tell you how many half-breeds I've seen and what kind of comments they have made. Here are just a few:
Half-Breed Comments:
"I'm not racist, but there's two different kinds of black people; a black person, and a nigger." - From a guy in a Wal-Mart store in Huntington, W.Va.
"I'm so scared of you all's baby mama's" - comment from a white girl in college
"I don't understand why so many black people get mad at the "N" word when they call each other that" - random guy in college
"You all have Obama in office and are still complaining" - Dr. Laura Schlessinger
"Man, this nigga is trippin!" - comment from a white girl in Huntington, W.Va. who dates black guys
"I'm not a racist, I just don't like what black people do sometimes" - random guy in Louisville
Half-breeds usually make comments around other half-breeds. But sometimes, as we have seen with certain celebrities and friends, a half-breed will say what they're thinking out loud and feel that it's not offensive to anyone. For a white person who thinks it's okay to say the "N" word....then go for it! Be my guest. But I don't think they would parade and walk around Louisville's West End or Lexington's East End and say it....or anywhere at that. Not that I'm promoting violence. The half-breed hasn't been mis-educated, they form their own opinion, which can get them into trouble. Dr. Schlessinger's comments were a perfect example of what a half-breed says or thinks. That's why she decided to take herself off the air (so much for thinking out loud).
We all know Mel as a pretty good actor/director and an average guy. That's how "we," the public, perceive him to be without knowing anything about his personal life and family. At first, we forgave Mel when he talked about the Jews while receiving a DUI. But with this recent audio of him telling his baby mama that he hopes she gets raped by a pack of niggers, well.................no more room for forgiveness, except for Whoopi Goldberg. But in order to understand Whoopi, you have to remember when she was with Ted Danson when he painted himself black, lol. Another half-breed is the Bounty Hunter.
Now we all know when he shared his thoughts about his son marrying a black woman. But then he went on this "crying" run with Al Sharpton and begged for forgiveness. And what does the American public do? Take him off the air for a short time and then put him right back on T.V. again. Nice punishment.
Why do black people use the "N" word with each other so much if it's offensive?
Well the first answer to that is because the word has been used so much on us that it will forever be embedded in our heads. Also, we have to trace back to the civil right era's. I can look at a black movie that was made in the 60s and 70s and see black people call each other the "N" word. And as for Dr. Schlessinger's comments about black comedians using it all the time, she's right. But it's used in comedy, and not by a white person. Sorry, but you gave us the word, we took it, and you can't have it back; it's 2010.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YgWbjdBjTb0
Honestly, after listening to this, I wasn't so much angry by her using the term "nigger," because it is carelessly tossed around anyways. What I was more angry with was her being rude and disrespectful to her caller (the black woman) on the phone. This so-called doctor told the woman, "Don't NAACP me!".....and she continued to cut her off when she was trying to make a point. Before Schlessinger's race rant, the woman originally called in for advice on how to handle certain comments that were offensive when her husbands friends are over. However, instead of giving her "appropriate" and "professional" advice, Schlessinger decided to make her own point by saying that some people are too sensitive when it comes to racist remarks, or the use of the "N" word. After hearing this, my guess is that most black people would call Schlessinger a racist, but I don't think she is. She's a half-breed.
What is a half-breed?
A half-breed (my own word and definition) is a person who is half-racist, and chooses to be in denial because of the way they are perceived by the public. On the outside, the public looks at their profession, their friendship, etc. These half-breeds understand what racism is and have been raised by their families not to be a racist. However, they feel that certain words and remarks are okay to use because they have been used by the other race in a way. For instance, Danny Glover and all black people's best friend, Mel Gibson. At my high school, especially in college, and even after college, I can't even begin to tell you how many half-breeds I've seen and what kind of comments they have made. Here are just a few:
Half-Breed Comments:
"I'm not racist, but there's two different kinds of black people; a black person, and a nigger." - From a guy in a Wal-Mart store in Huntington, W.Va.
"I'm so scared of you all's baby mama's" - comment from a white girl in college
"I don't understand why so many black people get mad at the "N" word when they call each other that" - random guy in college
"You all have Obama in office and are still complaining" - Dr. Laura Schlessinger
"Man, this nigga is trippin!" - comment from a white girl in Huntington, W.Va. who dates black guys
"I'm not a racist, I just don't like what black people do sometimes" - random guy in Louisville
Half-breeds usually make comments around other half-breeds. But sometimes, as we have seen with certain celebrities and friends, a half-breed will say what they're thinking out loud and feel that it's not offensive to anyone. For a white person who thinks it's okay to say the "N" word....then go for it! Be my guest. But I don't think they would parade and walk around Louisville's West End or Lexington's East End and say it....or anywhere at that. Not that I'm promoting violence. The half-breed hasn't been mis-educated, they form their own opinion, which can get them into trouble. Dr. Schlessinger's comments were a perfect example of what a half-breed says or thinks. That's why she decided to take herself off the air (so much for thinking out loud).
We all know Mel as a pretty good actor/director and an average guy. That's how "we," the public, perceive him to be without knowing anything about his personal life and family. At first, we forgave Mel when he talked about the Jews while receiving a DUI. But with this recent audio of him telling his baby mama that he hopes she gets raped by a pack of niggers, well.................no more room for forgiveness, except for Whoopi Goldberg. But in order to understand Whoopi, you have to remember when she was with Ted Danson when he painted himself black, lol. Another half-breed is the Bounty Hunter.
Now we all know when he shared his thoughts about his son marrying a black woman. But then he went on this "crying" run with Al Sharpton and begged for forgiveness. And what does the American public do? Take him off the air for a short time and then put him right back on T.V. again. Nice punishment.
Why do black people use the "N" word with each other so much if it's offensive?
Well the first answer to that is because the word has been used so much on us that it will forever be embedded in our heads. Also, we have to trace back to the civil right era's. I can look at a black movie that was made in the 60s and 70s and see black people call each other the "N" word. And as for Dr. Schlessinger's comments about black comedians using it all the time, she's right. But it's used in comedy, and not by a white person. Sorry, but you gave us the word, we took it, and you can't have it back; it's 2010.
Friday, August 20, 2010
The 7 Phases to a Failing Relationship....When Keeping it Real Goes Wrong
Ahhhh.....a relationship! Someone to call your own, who you can love, trust and commit to....doesn't that sound wonderful? But I've always wondered, when you keep it real in a relationship, is it really over? In other words, why is it that when someone becomes a better person for themselves and for their significant other by "keeping it real," it usually ends up backfiring and eventually ending that relationship?
I can't speak for others, but through my experience in my last relationship of six years, and hearing some of my friends talk about their relationship experiences and how they tried to "keep it real," we all have failed miserably.
So can a person really clean their dirty laundry? The answer is yes, but not all of the stains come out. Some of them remain permanent.
For example, the last two or three years of my last relationship felt like working on an assembly line at Toyota. My significant other and I were constantly working on fixing and repairing old wounds from the past that still haunted us. So, just like that assembly line, we got tired of working and fixing the same things over and over again, but continued to do so for the sake of our family. So just like an assembly line worker would continue to work on line, no matter how tired they are of fixing things, they just think about and do it for that paycheck. The problems and issues became so overwhelming, that we agreed to mutually split.
I believe we didn't realize that there was so many things to repair that it was actually changing the people that we really were when we first met each other. I can honestly say that I was not the same person after years had went by, and neither was she. Therefore, keeping it real was out of the question because we both weren't being honest about how we felt about each other.
Fast forward to now. I'm a different person than I was then and at a different place in my life right now, which is for the better. Lord knows I'm still trying to follow and take the proper steps to walk in his right path. But now that I am taking the proper steps and have grasped all aspects of man's role in a relationship, is it too late clear up the damage and start from scratch again? Some would say yes, and some would say "hell no." But is there really a true definitive answer for that?
In order to even come close to having an opinion of your own to that question, one would have to look back at all phases of their relationship:
The Honeymoon Phase
This phase usually lasts for about a year. If you're lucky, you may get two years. This is the phase where everything in your relationship is happening so fast that you merely have no control over it. You and the other person gel so good together that everything is damn near perfect. Instead of real arguments, you have "cute" lil' arguments in this stage and will not stay mad at each other throughout the day(s). And not to mention the sex! The sex is like anything that you've ever experienced before and as things in your relationship continue to move rapidly, you both fully commit to each other and label one another as "THE ONE."
Lets Play House Phase
It's very similar to the Honeymoon Phase where things continue to happen so quickly. Without an engagement ring, without a lifetime commitment, a couple decides it would be a good idea to move in together. This is like asking a person to marry them without even really asking....and they accept your offer. What a lot of us don't realize is that this phase is merely a trap, a set up for failure. No matter how much a couple loves each other, whether they have a baby together, etc., you cannot play house. I remember playing house as far back as elementary school and it was pretty fun, especially a lil' casanova like me having a "pretend" wife and "pretend children." But when recess or school was over, it was time to come back to reality and go home. The "Lets Play House" phase is very much that way as well. It's a lot of fun to play, but then you get tired and realize that you got in too deep too quick. And then you began to plot your next move on how to get out, or how to even stay and force it to make it work. This phase can last for however long the couple wants it to last.
The Disagreement Phase
We all agree to disagree at times. But this phase will eventually reveal a lot more about a person that you may never knew or thought of. The "cute" lil' arguments from the Honeymoon Phase are now over. Talking turns into yelling, yelling turns into fighting. A war of words are constantly being exchanged between you two, but you both still have a strong bond and connection, which keeps the relationship patched up and in tact.
The Separation Phase
This process can be when a couple has to live separately from each other until one person eventually reunites with their significant other and moves back in with them at a different location. This phase can also have some harsh results stemming from the disagreement phase where the arguing is becoming more constant. The disagreement phase causes the separation phase because the more arguments, fights and disagreements a couple has, the more distant they become of each other. And we all know what happens when one becomes distant, THE CHEATING.
The Cheating Phase
The Cheating Phase is like how food is to some people that are overweight; it's used a "cover-up" for comfort. If we cheat, flirt, or get the attention from another person that we aren't getting at home, we will continue to do so just to keep our sanity and a piece of mind when we are around our significant others. Therefore, the cheating continues, and we just hope that we don't get caught. But trust me, and from plenty of experience, we all don't get caught in the act, but we definitely get caught....eventually, which leads us into the next phase, LACK OF COMMUNICATION.
Lack of Communication Phase
For some, this phase can come before the cheating phase. But we all know that with a lack of communication, there is no way of knowing what is going on with the other person. For instance, if things have dramatically changed in the bedroom (remember that honeymoon phase?), facial expressions not the same, conversations are shorter and different, it's time to be a little concerned. This is also the phase where you see a couple completely morph into different people. All of a sudden, you start to notice all the tools that you had at the beginning phases are gone, or either fading away. What I'm trying to say is, you aren't the same person you used to be. You lose the trust, commitment, conversation, and last but not least, the love. And after the love is gone, what do you have left? Nothing. If not by now, the relationship is usually over, or hanging on by a thread.
Keeping it Real Phase
So after you go through all of these phases, you decide to keep it real because you realize that during that separation phase, that's where things began to change. During that lack of communication phase, you now realize that maybe if you would have communicated more to each other, some of the mistakes that were made during the relationship wouldn't have happened. You think about all the phases that you went through, and then you ask yourself the ultimate question, "Should I keep it real and tell this person how I feel and what I realize and know now? Or is it too late and too much damage?"
Well....you won't know unless you confront yourself, which is our worst enemy. For some reason, we have the hardest time as individuals when it comes to confronting ourselves. We can talk about everybody else in the world when it comes to problems and issues, but why are we so scared to take the first step, confronting ourselves and dealing with our own issues first. Many times, a lot of women (or vice versa) will blame a man for their infidelity, or say, "Why would he go there when he already has everything at home?" In my opinion, that's the most ridiculous question in the world! The answer is: DUH! Because he didn't have everything at home! AND...like I said...vice versa! Has one ever thought to take responsibility for themselves and realize that maybe that person was cheating because of issues YOU still have within yourself that's affecting the relationship. And believe me, because of my infidelity, I have been through more phone checks, unlocking security codes to facebook and myspace pages being broken into. My significant other failed to confront herself with her own insecurity issues, and I failed to confront my own lack of communication skills with her to let her know I was unhappy. Otherwise, things might have went differently.
So after reading this: I'll end it with one of my favorite songs from the group Floetry called "Ms. Stress"....a perfect ending to a story, lol. Click the link below and enjoy!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_a4yertGJiU
I can't speak for others, but through my experience in my last relationship of six years, and hearing some of my friends talk about their relationship experiences and how they tried to "keep it real," we all have failed miserably.
So can a person really clean their dirty laundry? The answer is yes, but not all of the stains come out. Some of them remain permanent.
For example, the last two or three years of my last relationship felt like working on an assembly line at Toyota. My significant other and I were constantly working on fixing and repairing old wounds from the past that still haunted us. So, just like that assembly line, we got tired of working and fixing the same things over and over again, but continued to do so for the sake of our family. So just like an assembly line worker would continue to work on line, no matter how tired they are of fixing things, they just think about and do it for that paycheck. The problems and issues became so overwhelming, that we agreed to mutually split.
I believe we didn't realize that there was so many things to repair that it was actually changing the people that we really were when we first met each other. I can honestly say that I was not the same person after years had went by, and neither was she. Therefore, keeping it real was out of the question because we both weren't being honest about how we felt about each other.
Fast forward to now. I'm a different person than I was then and at a different place in my life right now, which is for the better. Lord knows I'm still trying to follow and take the proper steps to walk in his right path. But now that I am taking the proper steps and have grasped all aspects of man's role in a relationship, is it too late clear up the damage and start from scratch again? Some would say yes, and some would say "hell no." But is there really a true definitive answer for that?
In order to even come close to having an opinion of your own to that question, one would have to look back at all phases of their relationship:
The Honeymoon Phase
This phase usually lasts for about a year. If you're lucky, you may get two years. This is the phase where everything in your relationship is happening so fast that you merely have no control over it. You and the other person gel so good together that everything is damn near perfect. Instead of real arguments, you have "cute" lil' arguments in this stage and will not stay mad at each other throughout the day(s). And not to mention the sex! The sex is like anything that you've ever experienced before and as things in your relationship continue to move rapidly, you both fully commit to each other and label one another as "THE ONE."
Lets Play House Phase
It's very similar to the Honeymoon Phase where things continue to happen so quickly. Without an engagement ring, without a lifetime commitment, a couple decides it would be a good idea to move in together. This is like asking a person to marry them without even really asking....and they accept your offer. What a lot of us don't realize is that this phase is merely a trap, a set up for failure. No matter how much a couple loves each other, whether they have a baby together, etc., you cannot play house. I remember playing house as far back as elementary school and it was pretty fun, especially a lil' casanova like me having a "pretend" wife and "pretend children." But when recess or school was over, it was time to come back to reality and go home. The "Lets Play House" phase is very much that way as well. It's a lot of fun to play, but then you get tired and realize that you got in too deep too quick. And then you began to plot your next move on how to get out, or how to even stay and force it to make it work. This phase can last for however long the couple wants it to last.
The Disagreement Phase
We all agree to disagree at times. But this phase will eventually reveal a lot more about a person that you may never knew or thought of. The "cute" lil' arguments from the Honeymoon Phase are now over. Talking turns into yelling, yelling turns into fighting. A war of words are constantly being exchanged between you two, but you both still have a strong bond and connection, which keeps the relationship patched up and in tact.
The Separation Phase
This process can be when a couple has to live separately from each other until one person eventually reunites with their significant other and moves back in with them at a different location. This phase can also have some harsh results stemming from the disagreement phase where the arguing is becoming more constant. The disagreement phase causes the separation phase because the more arguments, fights and disagreements a couple has, the more distant they become of each other. And we all know what happens when one becomes distant, THE CHEATING.
The Cheating Phase
The Cheating Phase is like how food is to some people that are overweight; it's used a "cover-up" for comfort. If we cheat, flirt, or get the attention from another person that we aren't getting at home, we will continue to do so just to keep our sanity and a piece of mind when we are around our significant others. Therefore, the cheating continues, and we just hope that we don't get caught. But trust me, and from plenty of experience, we all don't get caught in the act, but we definitely get caught....eventually, which leads us into the next phase, LACK OF COMMUNICATION.
Lack of Communication Phase
For some, this phase can come before the cheating phase. But we all know that with a lack of communication, there is no way of knowing what is going on with the other person. For instance, if things have dramatically changed in the bedroom (remember that honeymoon phase?), facial expressions not the same, conversations are shorter and different, it's time to be a little concerned. This is also the phase where you see a couple completely morph into different people. All of a sudden, you start to notice all the tools that you had at the beginning phases are gone, or either fading away. What I'm trying to say is, you aren't the same person you used to be. You lose the trust, commitment, conversation, and last but not least, the love. And after the love is gone, what do you have left? Nothing. If not by now, the relationship is usually over, or hanging on by a thread.
Keeping it Real Phase
Well....you won't know unless you confront yourself, which is our worst enemy. For some reason, we have the hardest time as individuals when it comes to confronting ourselves. We can talk about everybody else in the world when it comes to problems and issues, but why are we so scared to take the first step, confronting ourselves and dealing with our own issues first. Many times, a lot of women (or vice versa) will blame a man for their infidelity, or say, "Why would he go there when he already has everything at home?" In my opinion, that's the most ridiculous question in the world! The answer is: DUH! Because he didn't have everything at home! AND...like I said...vice versa! Has one ever thought to take responsibility for themselves and realize that maybe that person was cheating because of issues YOU still have within yourself that's affecting the relationship. And believe me, because of my infidelity, I have been through more phone checks, unlocking security codes to facebook and myspace pages being broken into. My significant other failed to confront herself with her own insecurity issues, and I failed to confront my own lack of communication skills with her to let her know I was unhappy. Otherwise, things might have went differently.
So after reading this: I'll end it with one of my favorite songs from the group Floetry called "Ms. Stress"....a perfect ending to a story, lol. Click the link below and enjoy!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_a4yertGJiU
Thursday, August 19, 2010
Nicki Minaj and Keisha Cole dukin' it out?!, Jay Z the richest man in hip hop on Forbes list, Justin Bieber/Kany/Raekwon Collabo
Wyclef Goes into Hiding
When I first heard about him running for president in Haiti, I must admit, I thought it was a good look. But the more I thought about it, this guy had gotten so much attention with his "Text Yele" stuff that I think it really got to his head. To Wyclef's credit, I really don't know if the guy knows a whole lot about politics or not, but if he doesn't wanna get a foot or head chopped off over there, he better start hittin' the books. I've gotten word that Wyclef has received several death threats and has went into hiding because of all this attention he's getting (way to backfire on ya, lol) People are saying that some Haitians want him out of the country because of his failure to proved that he had been a resident of Haiti for five years, a required minimum to run for president. Good luck Clef, cause Pras don't got ya back!
Toya Carter Cashes in on MempHitz
So now that T.I. is out of jail, married and got Tiny's ass on lock again, Miss Carter will have her own reality show on BET (Think she can make it without Tiny, I don't). Aside from that, she has been spotted sporting a big rock on her finger from her boyfriend MempHitz. Some sources are saying that the two are about to tie the knot. Toya is a nice-looking lady and I would be jealous as hell if that was my ex. But I'm nobody, just the average cat. Now if I was Weezy and could have any girl in the world, nope...wouldn't give a damn about Toya. Good luck MemHitz!
Nicki Minaj and Keisha Cole having some issues?
I don't know how true this is. But I'm getting some info, claiming that Nicki and Keisha were working on a collabo. Well some dude from Nicki's camp had an exchange of words with Keisha, and of course she didn't back down. However, they are saying that Nicki proceeded to jump in and it was pure chaos after that. Now do I believe this?.....kinda and sorta.....Do I think they finished the song and will it ever be released.......No! I would like to see those to collab though, I think it would be a good look....oh well!
The Life and Times of Fantasia: Part 30!
I swear I'm really getting sick of updating about this chick's love life and problems. But everyone seems so interested in it that you can't go anywhere without hearing about it. From TV's to radio shows, and yes! Even in church! I went to bible study last night and the pastor preached a good sermon, but guess who he mentioned...none other than the name Fantasia! He basically said that you shouldn't take pills or try to kill yourself over some man. Anyway, Fantasia and her love affair man "Cook" have been said to be back together. Of course this would come after his soon-to-be ex-wife had went public about her frustration with the affair. Is it true?....don't count on it....or at least not just yet. Good luck Cook's soon-to-be ex-wife!
Jay Z tops the Forbes list as the Richest Man in Hip Hop
Man, talk about longevity with his music. But I guarantee you that his paper stretches waaaay further than his longevity in music. Forbes is saying that Jigga Man has raked in a cool $63 million over the past 12 months. Last year, Jay earned about $35 million. All the young and old rappers who continue to attempt to attack Jay lyrically and however else they try to, take this as a learning lesson. I think Jay said it best on Reasonable Doubt, "You Can't Knock the Hustle," and "Men Lie, Women Lie, Money Don't." Good Luck Jim Jones, Beanie Sigel, and a host of other rappers who preyed on Jay's downfall.
Who's Grandma is this? Click the link below to see if it's yours or somebody you might know:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=31XMbQAoRNo
It's Kanye and Bieber fever...........and Raekwon?
We all know Kanye has made some headlines for his past comments or rants at award shows. But do we know about him and Justin Bieber tweeting each other and discussing a collaboration that will possibly include Raekwon? Hmmmm....interesting is all I can pretty much say about that. But with Kanye, he probably can make it work. We shall see. Oh yeah.....by the way....Kanye said that Nicki Minaj is like the number two best rapper out there......hmmmm? Now this is the old Kanye I know!
TAKERS!
I think I almost cried when The Wire aired their final episode on HBO a few years ago. Of course, one of my favorite actors that starred on that show was Idris Elba, who also is in the upcoming movie with T.I., "Takers." Besides his good acting and that funny ass London accent, homie has been a DJ on the turntables for a while. He is releasing a mixtape for the movie Takers. Can't wait to hear what it might sound like.
Frenchie's Revenge!
If you don't know, let me make this long story short. Fat Joe introduced French Montana on stage during his birthday bash....well Jim Jones and the Dipset crew were also in the building, which wasn't good because Dipset and Frenchie's crew have been exchanging a war of words for a couple of years now. Less than two minutes, several bottles were thrown on stage allegedly by Jimmy and the Dipset crew. See the link below:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tyKjkC4mSU
Well..............word is...Frenchie returned the favor at Jim Jones' birthday party, but they already removed the footage....Damn!
Bizzy Bone signs with Cash Money
Speaking of....Baby of Cash Money compares his son Weezy to the likes of Michael Jackson, lmao!
Here's what he said:
“When Wayne comes home he lifts everybody’s spirits, he lifts everybody’s value, he lifts the brand, he lifts everything. Wayne is gonna be the biggest artist in music, not just in hip-hop; in music. It’s some Michael Jackson sh*t right here goin’ on right before our eyes…He’s a beast; he went back to that raw rappin’. That n*gga still be impressin’ me with his music. I say that to say that I be around him a lot so the sh*t he do and say shouldn’t be as impressive to me. I’m one of his biggest fans, I be geeked out on him. I watch him work, he’s just cold. It’s some magical s**tto watch the young blood do what he do.”
Now you be the judge!
Who is this Guy!?!
This dumbass decided he would put semen in one of his co-workers water bottles, more than once! Well, they eventually found out that it was semen that made her sick, and it had this guy's DNA written all over it. What was his motivation?....I don't know.
Tahiry....just one time! Just one damn TIME!
I don't know how he does it, but Joe Budden has some of the baddest chicks I've ever seen...and it's not like the guy is major, although he is one of my favorite artist. But check his ex-girlfriend's XXL spread out, Tahiry, I officially love you!
Oh my DAMN!
Ice Cube says another Friday is possible, but impossible without Chris Tucker
I believe I've heard Cube say this before. But he expressed how he would love to make another Friday film, but only if they can get Chris Tucker to do it. C'mon Chris! We need just one more Friday. Can you imagine Cube, Chris Tucker and Mike Epps on one set together? Epic!
F.L.Y. Fashion No NO!
I hate to do it to my homie, but Pharell stepped out in his Ice Cream clothing attire and it looked like he had been in the house all day. The train station hat and the loose bandanna around the neck is a lil' too suspect for me. One thing I can admit that is positive about this, is I like the color scheme. In the midst of it being a terrible outfit, the different colors from the shorts to the shoes still seem to coordinate with each other. But who am I other than an unknown blogger. This guy has traveled to France and some other famous places for fashion shows and modeling. He knows what he's doing. But sometimes, I feel like celebrities dress like this on purpose for attention. Who knows! But I say NO to this! Sorry Pharell! You still tha homie tho!
F.L.Y. Recipe
Stuffed Spinach Ravioli with the WORKS!
Earlier this week, my roommate had fixed some stuffed spinach ravioli with alfredo sauce. It was pretty damn good.....although I added my own twist to it a few days ago that might be a health hazard to others, but it's damn good going down! To add to the stuffed spinach ravioli, I stir-fried some smoked turkey, roast beef, mushrooms, onions and bacon to put on top of the ravioli, along with shredded and parmesan cheese..THA BOMB! Sorry I couldn't get a pick on here...but I will give you the ingredients:
Alfredo sauce
can of mushrooms
stuffed spinach ravioli (usually can get this in your local grocery stores)
shredded cheese
parmesan cheese
onions
bacon
This meal can be ready to go in less than 30 minutes! Try it out and tell me what ya think, and if you're ready to fall asleep afterward.
F.L.Y. Poetry
PEACE
Peace can mean several things when it comes to you: Goodbye, see you later, or remaining calm. But I choose goodbye because you cannot remain calm. Peace within myself means peace be without you. No more second guessing, feeling the numbness in my heart, worrying my mind to death about where you are when you don't call or what type of negative influences you have in your life that affect us. You can have the clubs, you can have friends that have no motivation in life but to bring you down with them, you can act careless and talk behind my back when you're drunk to others about the real problems you have with me at home. Only one thing though, I won't be there to witness it. I'm at Peace with myself, and my God....but are you at peace with yourself?
When I first heard about him running for president in Haiti, I must admit, I thought it was a good look. But the more I thought about it, this guy had gotten so much attention with his "Text Yele" stuff that I think it really got to his head. To Wyclef's credit, I really don't know if the guy knows a whole lot about politics or not, but if he doesn't wanna get a foot or head chopped off over there, he better start hittin' the books. I've gotten word that Wyclef has received several death threats and has went into hiding because of all this attention he's getting (way to backfire on ya, lol) People are saying that some Haitians want him out of the country because of his failure to proved that he had been a resident of Haiti for five years, a required minimum to run for president. Good luck Clef, cause Pras don't got ya back!
Toya Carter Cashes in on MempHitz
So now that T.I. is out of jail, married and got Tiny's ass on lock again, Miss Carter will have her own reality show on BET (Think she can make it without Tiny, I don't). Aside from that, she has been spotted sporting a big rock on her finger from her boyfriend MempHitz. Some sources are saying that the two are about to tie the knot. Toya is a nice-looking lady and I would be jealous as hell if that was my ex. But I'm nobody, just the average cat. Now if I was Weezy and could have any girl in the world, nope...wouldn't give a damn about Toya. Good luck MemHitz!
Nicki Minaj and Keisha Cole having some issues?
I don't know how true this is. But I'm getting some info, claiming that Nicki and Keisha were working on a collabo. Well some dude from Nicki's camp had an exchange of words with Keisha, and of course she didn't back down. However, they are saying that Nicki proceeded to jump in and it was pure chaos after that. Now do I believe this?.....kinda and sorta.....Do I think they finished the song and will it ever be released.......No! I would like to see those to collab though, I think it would be a good look....oh well!
The Life and Times of Fantasia: Part 30!
I swear I'm really getting sick of updating about this chick's love life and problems. But everyone seems so interested in it that you can't go anywhere without hearing about it. From TV's to radio shows, and yes! Even in church! I went to bible study last night and the pastor preached a good sermon, but guess who he mentioned...none other than the name Fantasia! He basically said that you shouldn't take pills or try to kill yourself over some man. Anyway, Fantasia and her love affair man "Cook" have been said to be back together. Of course this would come after his soon-to-be ex-wife had went public about her frustration with the affair. Is it true?....don't count on it....or at least not just yet. Good luck Cook's soon-to-be ex-wife!
Jay Z tops the Forbes list as the Richest Man in Hip Hop
Man, talk about longevity with his music. But I guarantee you that his paper stretches waaaay further than his longevity in music. Forbes is saying that Jigga Man has raked in a cool $63 million over the past 12 months. Last year, Jay earned about $35 million. All the young and old rappers who continue to attempt to attack Jay lyrically and however else they try to, take this as a learning lesson. I think Jay said it best on Reasonable Doubt, "You Can't Knock the Hustle," and "Men Lie, Women Lie, Money Don't." Good Luck Jim Jones, Beanie Sigel, and a host of other rappers who preyed on Jay's downfall.
Who's Grandma is this? Click the link below to see if it's yours or somebody you might know:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=31XMbQAoRNo
It's Kanye and Bieber fever...........and Raekwon?
We all know Kanye has made some headlines for his past comments or rants at award shows. But do we know about him and Justin Bieber tweeting each other and discussing a collaboration that will possibly include Raekwon? Hmmmm....interesting is all I can pretty much say about that. But with Kanye, he probably can make it work. We shall see. Oh yeah.....by the way....Kanye said that Nicki Minaj is like the number two best rapper out there......hmmmm? Now this is the old Kanye I know!
TAKERS!
I think I almost cried when The Wire aired their final episode on HBO a few years ago. Of course, one of my favorite actors that starred on that show was Idris Elba, who also is in the upcoming movie with T.I., "Takers." Besides his good acting and that funny ass London accent, homie has been a DJ on the turntables for a while. He is releasing a mixtape for the movie Takers. Can't wait to hear what it might sound like.
Frenchie's Revenge!
If you don't know, let me make this long story short. Fat Joe introduced French Montana on stage during his birthday bash....well Jim Jones and the Dipset crew were also in the building, which wasn't good because Dipset and Frenchie's crew have been exchanging a war of words for a couple of years now. Less than two minutes, several bottles were thrown on stage allegedly by Jimmy and the Dipset crew. See the link below:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tyKjkC4mSU
Well..............word is...Frenchie returned the favor at Jim Jones' birthday party, but they already removed the footage....Damn!
Bizzy Bone signs with Cash Money
Nuff said about that....I'm not gonna waste my time on that one.
Speaking of....Baby of Cash Money compares his son Weezy to the likes of Michael Jackson, lmao!
Here's what he said:
“When Wayne comes home he lifts everybody’s spirits, he lifts everybody’s value, he lifts the brand, he lifts everything. Wayne is gonna be the biggest artist in music, not just in hip-hop; in music. It’s some Michael Jackson sh*t right here goin’ on right before our eyes…He’s a beast; he went back to that raw rappin’. That n*gga still be impressin’ me with his music. I say that to say that I be around him a lot so the sh*t he do and say shouldn’t be as impressive to me. I’m one of his biggest fans, I be geeked out on him. I watch him work, he’s just cold. It’s some magical s**tto watch the young blood do what he do.”
Now you be the judge!
Who is this Guy!?!
This dumbass decided he would put semen in one of his co-workers water bottles, more than once! Well, they eventually found out that it was semen that made her sick, and it had this guy's DNA written all over it. What was his motivation?....I don't know.
Tahiry....just one time! Just one damn TIME!
I don't know how he does it, but Joe Budden has some of the baddest chicks I've ever seen...and it's not like the guy is major, although he is one of my favorite artist. But check his ex-girlfriend's XXL spread out, Tahiry, I officially love you!
Oh my DAMN!
Ice Cube says another Friday is possible, but impossible without Chris Tucker
I believe I've heard Cube say this before. But he expressed how he would love to make another Friday film, but only if they can get Chris Tucker to do it. C'mon Chris! We need just one more Friday. Can you imagine Cube, Chris Tucker and Mike Epps on one set together? Epic!
F.L.Y. Fashion No NO!
I hate to do it to my homie, but Pharell stepped out in his Ice Cream clothing attire and it looked like he had been in the house all day. The train station hat and the loose bandanna around the neck is a lil' too suspect for me. One thing I can admit that is positive about this, is I like the color scheme. In the midst of it being a terrible outfit, the different colors from the shorts to the shoes still seem to coordinate with each other. But who am I other than an unknown blogger. This guy has traveled to France and some other famous places for fashion shows and modeling. He knows what he's doing. But sometimes, I feel like celebrities dress like this on purpose for attention. Who knows! But I say NO to this! Sorry Pharell! You still tha homie tho!
F.L.Y. Recipe
Stuffed Spinach Ravioli with the WORKS!
Earlier this week, my roommate had fixed some stuffed spinach ravioli with alfredo sauce. It was pretty damn good.....although I added my own twist to it a few days ago that might be a health hazard to others, but it's damn good going down! To add to the stuffed spinach ravioli, I stir-fried some smoked turkey, roast beef, mushrooms, onions and bacon to put on top of the ravioli, along with shredded and parmesan cheese..THA BOMB! Sorry I couldn't get a pick on here...but I will give you the ingredients:
Alfredo sauce
can of mushrooms
stuffed spinach ravioli (usually can get this in your local grocery stores)
shredded cheese
parmesan cheese
onions
bacon
This meal can be ready to go in less than 30 minutes! Try it out and tell me what ya think, and if you're ready to fall asleep afterward.
F.L.Y. Poetry
PEACE
Peace can mean several things when it comes to you: Goodbye, see you later, or remaining calm. But I choose goodbye because you cannot remain calm. Peace within myself means peace be without you. No more second guessing, feeling the numbness in my heart, worrying my mind to death about where you are when you don't call or what type of negative influences you have in your life that affect us. You can have the clubs, you can have friends that have no motivation in life but to bring you down with them, you can act careless and talk behind my back when you're drunk to others about the real problems you have with me at home. Only one thing though, I won't be there to witness it. I'm at Peace with myself, and my God....but are you at peace with yourself?
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